Dare to be Different

Bucking the Trends: Decorating in Your Own Unique Style

I’ve never really followed trends and throughout my life simply strived to do things my way and express my own unique style. And while the way our home looks says a lot about us, our interior design or decorating tastes do evolve. I was in love with anything blue and mauve in the 80s (I cringe at my 20-something self now), an eclectic mix in the 90s, mostly classic styles in the 00s, and old world or Tuscany styles in the last decade.

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I feel that our style during any period of our lives is partly a reflection of what we’re going through in life as well as our level of maturity, what we’ve been exposed to through travel and culture, our personalities, and perhaps a hint of current trends (although for some, trends are always reflected in their homes) combined. Our homes should be a place where we feel comfortable, relaxed, and happy and reflects who we are. I feel that bucking the trends gets us there.

Our home should be a place where we can escape the outside world and be ourselves. It should be a place where we can feel free to be creative, experiment, and express our unique style. Interior design should be about more than just matching colors and furniture. It should be about creating a space that is uniquely ours.

So how do we unleash our unique style? Start by thinking about what we want our home to say about us. Do we want it to be warm and inviting? Creative and eclectic? Elegant and stylish? Once we have a vision for our space, we can start to piece together the perfect design.

Think about the colors, textures, and patterns that make us happy. Choose furniture and décor that reflect our personalities. And don’t be afraid to experiment – the best way to find our unique style is to try new things.

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We don’t have to be a designer to have great style

Style is not about following the latest trends or trying to be someone we're not. It's about being confident in our own taste and expressing it through the way we dress, the way we decorate our homes, and the way we carry ourselves. Anyone can have great style; it just takes a little bit of effort and some creativity.

One way to add our own unique style to our home is by mixing and matching different pieces of furniture and décor. We don't have to stick to one style or era; we should feel free to mix things up and create our own unique look. If unsure where to start, try looking for pieces that have a common theme or color scheme. For example, a love of antique or vintage furniture could involve mixing and matching different pieces from different periods to create a cohesive look.


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Another way to add our own personal style is through our choice of accessories. Again, don't be afraid to mix and match different styles and colors. And don't forget, accessories can be anything from jewelry and handbags to artwork and pottery. It's all about what reflects our personality and taste.

Last but not least, remember that style is about more than just what we wear and what we have in our homes. It's also about how we carry ourselves and the way we interact with others. Confidence is key; if we believe in our own unique style, others will too.

Start with the basics – figure out what we do and don’t like

Before we start shopping for new furniture or picking out paint colors, it’s important to take a step back and figure out what we do and don’t like. This will help us narrow down our options and make the shopping process a lot easier.

A good place to start is by looking through magazines and online resources to get an idea of what styles we like. Take inspiration from our favorite places. Whether it's a cozy cafe, a stylish boutique, or even a friend's home, note the things that catch our eye and make us feel good. Take note of the colors, patterns, and overall aesthetics that catch our eye. Once we have a good idea of what we’re drawn to, we can start to incorporate some of those elements into our own space.

Another way to figure out our personal style is to take a look at our wardrobe. The clothes we wear are a reflection of our taste, so it stands to reason that the furniture and décor in our home should reflect that as well. Do we tend to gravitate toward certain colors or styles when we’re shopping for clothes? This can be a good indicator of what we would like in our home.

Once we have a better idea of our personal style, it will be much easier to shop for furniture and décor. And, when our home reflects our unique style, it will be a place we love coming back to every day.

Work with what we have – we can always make changes later

It can be easy to get overwhelmed when faced with the task of decorating our home. Where do we even start?

One great way to start is by working with what we have. We can always make changes later, but for now, focus on what we can do with the items and furniture we already have. If we have a sofa we’re not in love with, try adding some new throw pillows or a blanket to give it a fresh look. If we're not thrilled with our coffee table, try styling it with some books and décor items. Get creative!

We may be surprised at how much of a difference a few small changes can make. Working with what we have can help remove some of the pressure to come up with a cohesive solution all at once and helps confirm our tastes. From there, we can start to make bigger and more impactful changes. So go ahead and experiment – our home is our own personal blank canvas, just waiting to be filled with our unique style.

Be fearless – don't be afraid to try new things

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If we're not able to put our own unique spin on a space, then what's the point? It's important to remember that it's okay to experiment and try new things.

There are no hard and fast rules. We can pretty much do whatever we want. So if we're ever feeling stuck or uninspired, we shouldn't be afraid to experiment with new ideas. We might come up with something amazing.

One thing to keep in mind, however, is that sometimes less is more. Just because we can go crazy with color and patterns doesn't necessarily mean we should. Sometimes, a more subdued and simple approach can actually be more effective. So we shouldn't be afraid to experiment with different looks until we find something we're really happy with.

The most important thing is to have fun and enjoy the process.

Take our time – the best designs come together slowly

If we're hoping to put our own personal spin on our home's interior design, we'll need to take our time to ensure that the finished product is something that truly reflects our unique style. This is not a process that can be rushed – the best designs come together slowly, through a process of trial and error.

It's important to experiment with different design elements and to take inspiration from a variety of sources. Not everything we try is going to work, but that's all part of the fun. Enjoy the process and trust our own instincts.

If we're feeling overwhelmed, start by focusing on one room at a time. And don't be afraid to ask for help from friends or family members who might have a better eye for design than we do. We will ultimately create a space that feels like home and expresses who we are.

Trust our instincts – we know what we like

It's important to trust our instincts. We know what we like. There are no wrong choices when it comes to design, only what we do and don’t like.

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Of course, it's always helpful to get some input from others. Talk to friends and family and/or get some inspiration from magazines and websites. But at the end of the day, we should go with our gut.

If we're not sure about something, we shouldn’t be afraid to experiment. We can always change it later if we don't like it. The beauty of design is that it's always changing and evolving. So go with our hearts, and trust that we'll create something beautiful.

Have fun! – remember, this is our home, so make it reflect our personality

When it comes to interior design, it's important to have fun and make our homes reflect our personality. Here are some ways to do that:

  1. Get creative with color. Don't be afraid to use bold, bright colors. They can really make a space pop and add some personality.
  2. Use patterns and textures. Adding patterns and textures to a space can add interest and depth. It can also help to show off our personality.
  3. Be eclectic. Don't be afraid to mix and match different styles. This can create a really unique and interesting space.
  4. Personalize our space. Add personal touches to our home so that it truly reflects who we are. This could be anything from photos and art to sentimental items.
  5. Think outside the box. Let our imaginations run wild.
  6. Seek professional help. If we're feeling stuck, a professional interior designer can really help bring our vision to life.
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